Success Factor:October 28th SMU Cox Business School 6:30

Don’t Dwell on Anything Too Long, It is the BIGGEST waste of time

                                                        Don’t Dwell on Anything Too Long, it’s the BIGGEST waste of time.  Dwelling is something we all do.  We sit, think and rethink about something.  It’s a quick way to waste your time.  If something is bothering you, work on it.  If all you’re doing is thinking about it, then your not moving the mountain. SO Don’t dwell on anything too long.

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Are YOU Networking w/ the Right People?

Are YOU Networking w/ the Right People? Or do you find yourself at the same events with the same people?  When you leave the event, do you sit in your car wondering why you went? While you drive home does your mind race about all the things you could be doing if you had the right contacts.  Your next promotion/opportunity might be a phone call + text + FB + Tweet. Stop selling yourself short.  POWER NETWORK! Push yourself into a new social circle. Start with a charity event or business networking function (that you never attended before).  When you arrive, make it a MISSION to talk to at least 10 people.  Before you leave the event, send them an email or txt (This will blow their mind). I attended a networking event this week and won a book. As soon as the author handed me the book with his card in it, I grabbed my Blackberry and sent him a thank you note.  5 minutes later he walked over to me and said “You sent me a message already, that’s amazing!”  – The name of his book Winning Strategies “Secrets to Clinching Multimillion Dollar Deals”.  By the way, we’re meeting next week for lunch.

It’s Midnight! Look around the room; Only you know what you really want. Go Get It!

It’s midniight! Look around the room. Are you where you want to be right now? Will you go home feeling like “It was a good night?”. Or are you starting to feel like “Same song different verse”? Are you at home wishing your were somewhere else? Only you know what you really want. GO Get It! Write it down, then SLEEP on… it. Tomorrow is the beginning of a new life. IF YOU WANT IT!

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It’s a wrap! You Either Decide to Make This Season the Best One of Your Life Or Miss the Opportunity

It’s a wrap! You Either Decide to Make This Season the Best One of Your Life or Miss the Opportunity

 I hope over the last 30 days you read, saw, or heard something that inspired you to change your life.  I have to admit that I have been extremely inspired this month.  I met some amazing people on my journey.  I’m glad that I have been blessed with the opportunity to find my GIFT and teach others how to access their GIFTS.  If this month didn’t help you, don’t give up.  Your moment is coming. Your inspiration my come from another source.  Just as long as you get FIRED UP!  I want to leave you with a few nuggets from March

 1) Time is finite; once it’s gone…It’s gone…So don’t waste time

 2) Take a chance, DO SOMETHING! Step out on Faith.  The thing you want most is one step away from you

 3) When you help others, you ultimately help yourself.  Always be open to help

 4) A book can send a message to people you can’t talk to face to face.  A video can send a message and make people feel like they have talked to you face to face.  Have a message, and don’t be afraid to share it

 5) Sometimes life’s greatest GIFTS come in small packages…Zoe Milan Murphy

 6) Don’t forget the people who have your back. Love them like they love you

 7) Do more positive things if you want more positive results

 8 – What are you about to change about your life?

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 Wil Murphy

You Must Be The Change You Want To See In The World!

-Ghandi-

Day 24 – It’s Day 24, Are you going to change? – 30 Days of Change

 

Last night at 10 pm, I was standing in front of a Green wall talking to a camera.  I had to talk to the camera as if there were 1 million people in front of me.  One of the camera people said to me during the break “Did you memorize all of this stuff, because you’re speaking to the camera as if you were in front of millions of people?”  I looked at him and said, ” I think I have been preparing for this all of my life”.  My words were as fluid as my thoughts. After two hours, I was finally at the end.  I walked out of the studio numb. As I got into my car, I looked around and realized that I’M IN A NEW PLACE!  Do you want to be in a new place?  All month I have been pushing you to get out of that little comfortable box you live in day to day.  I can preach, write, and push.  At the end of the day, it’s really up to you now.  It’s day 24.  Time is running out.  Are you going to CHANGE? Whatever it is you’re waiting on, let it go!  Start moving in the direction that will help you be fulfilled and full of joy everyday. You can do it! You never know what you may find when you open up your box and step outside.

Wil Murphy

To be Successful, you have to Get COMFORTABLE with Being UNCOMFORTABLE

To be Successful, you have to Get COMFORTABLE with Being UNCOMFORTABLEThey told me once I was successful, life would be more Comfortable.  THEY WERE WRONG!  Do you find yourself saying, “I can’t wait until I’m making more money, because I want to get to a comfortable place.”  I want to dispel a huge myth!  Are you ready, because this is BIG? If you want to be successful, you will never be COMFORTABLE!  In fact, to be truly successful you have to GET COMFORTABLE WITH BEING UNCOMFORTABLE. 

 I’m UNCOMFORTABLE!

 I was getting on a plane recently thinking about all the things I’m working on right now – The book, coaching, mentoring, public speaking, being a landlord,  and I started to get mad.  I was mad because it feels so uncomfortable.  I started praying.  I asked God why he put me in this place that is so UNCOMFORTABLE.  I said, you gave me a vision of greatness, you made me feel like I was about to be successful.  All I feel right now is UNCOMFORTABLE.

 His Response to Me

  The plane was full and there were very few seats.  I walked to the back of the plane (Not flying first class yet) and got to the last two seats.  It was the only space with enough room overhead for my luggage.  I then looked at the guy I was about to sit next too.  I smiled and said “What Up?”. I think he was shocked to see this suited up Executive say “what up?”.   He had tattoos from head to toe. He was wearing straight LA gear.  I knew from my life experience he was either and active or retired banger.  Based on his tattoos I knew he was a General in a gang (Someone who has a temper and will kill you in a minute).  I sat down next to him.  UNCOMFORTABLE, just a little! I think he was UNCOMFORTABLE too!  We started talking like we were old friends.  His name was Santiago.  He told me he had been in and out of prison for the last 35 years.  He was a fighter on the streets, but he was also a mental fighter.  He asked me about my journey.  I told him that I went from broke as hell to living well.  We landed in Houston and it was time for me to get off the plane.  He was headed back to LA.  He hadn’t been home in over a year.  Santiago realized he had to take a risk and move away from home.  In LA he was trapped in a vicious circle.  He had to get really uncomfortable in order to change his life.  I gave him a copy of my book and I told him to stay in touch.  He reached in his pocket and pulled out his roll (That’s folded 100 dollar bills, and a lot of them) then paid me for the book and said, “Homey I got to support the real Generals that are willing to teach guys like me how to make it.” 

 The Message

 God has a funny way of delivering responses to prayer.  You see, I’m UNCOMFORTABLE because I’m growing into my SUCCESS.  If you want to be truly successful, get out of your comfort zone.  Steve Harvey said this to me in a tweet a few weeks ago.  THANKS STEVE, I get it now.  So if you’re trying to get to the next level, face your fear head on.  Get COMFORTABLE with being UNCOMFORTABLE!

 Wil Murphy – Author of  The Wealth Code

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Are You in a Ride or Die Relationship? Prepare yourself, because this is the Ride or Die SEASON of your life

Are you in a Ride or Die Relationship?

I found myself over the last two days engaging in some DEEP conversations about relationships. I suddenly realized that part of the reason the divorce rate is so high is we date at the surface level. You know you hook up because he/she is fine, he/she has it together (nice car, nice house, good job). Then many people enter marriages based on surface level connections. You get married because it sounds good. What does that mean? His title looks good with your title (lawyer and doctor; writer and beautician;dj and singer) or the idea of a wedding has been in your head all of your life. There is nothing wrong with any of this, but will it make you happy?

Are you looking for a guarantee that doesn’t exist?

We do the same thing in other relationships. We select companies for the benefits, nice office or salary. We select churches for the great sermon, the fine men/women that attend (yes, I know people who do it). We buy cars cause it’s the hot one to buy. So STOP for moment! None of these things come with a guarantee.  Are you putting your faith in the right things for the right reason?

HERE IS THE RIDE OR DIE MOMENT

Can you love someone simply for the way they love you?

Can you buy a car or house simply because the price gives you flexibility to do other positive things with your money?

Men, one day you may have to help that fine woman put on her shoes because she can’t see her feet. You may have to cook dinner because she needs to walk in the door and just fall on the couch (cause she is working and you’re not). Ladies, his 6 figure job @ the great company may go away. I know a guy who 2 yrs ago was making $500,000 a year and now he makes $50,000. He has a house & expensive cars he can’t sell.

In a clutch moment when nothing is working for you, can you look around at the people you spend money and time on (that’s friends, family, boy/girlfriends, husband/wife) and say “Ride or Die”. Prepare yourself, because this is the Ride or Die season.

It is good for people to eat well, drink a good glass of wine, and enjoy their work ECCLESIASTES 5:18-20

 

 Even so, I have noticed one thing, at least, that is good.  It is good for people to eat well drink a good glass of wine, and enjoy their work – whatever they do under the sun- for however long God lets them live.  And it is a good thing to receive wealth from God and the good health to enjoy it.  To enjoy your work and accept your lot in life – that is indeed a gift from God.  People who do this rarely look with sorrow on the past, for God has given them reasons for joy. Ecclesiastes 5:18-20

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